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When I matched with B. There were 64,382 households in the county. What did I think about taking the subway together?


Best (and Worst) Places to Get Your Swirl On - I would argue that with anyone. It seems like the West Coast has a totally new mentality.


As someone close to the age of the OP and with experience in this, the OP has to find a place that is integrated with lots of mixed couples in public. My ex GF took me to freaknik and it became very uncomfortable for me. And she was very uncomfortable at events in Preston Hollow. I have to disagree. Well, it's your experience versus the facts. For a city with large populations of numerous races, Houston is one of the more integrated major metros in the nation, both physically and socially. People can continue to argue that all they want. To Metro Matt, I disagree with you and will have to agree 100% with cjs617. The statement and continued re-statement by people that Houston is very integrated is the biggest deception out there. Please prospective residents, do not believe that Houston is integrated. Yes, it is diverse but not INTEGRATED. There is a big difference between both words. Yes you get to see people of different nationalities around, however, when it comes to residence, it is the most segregated city I have lived in. I never knew this until I moved out of Houston. Likewise, Metro Matt, you will not notice this until you move. I moved to Denver; then I knew what blended community entailed. Not diverse by any means but not segregated. Virtually every neighborhood, community here in Denver you will find Whites, Blacks, Asians, mixed and Hispanics living together. That does not translate to lack of racism but all races are blended here and couldn't say the same for Houston. In my judgement, Houston is the most diverse city in the country, however, it is the most segregated and gated like hell. When I lived here; had a friend visit from Denver and he kept asking me... In oblivion, I asked him, what do you mean? So I asked isn't it the same in Colorado? He said HELL NO; rarely a gated community. When I moved there I saw validity in all he said. Not according to this map; atleast, not in a way more noticeable than in Houston. The maps must be lying, though, right? Do not confuse diversity with integration and tolerance. I got more looks; like WTF looks, mean looks, Sellout look in Houston when me black and my white girlfriend lived there. I mean; people will stare like you guys are from planet mars. Please understand this is core Houston areas like Westchase, Galleria, which could have been why. Perhaps it would have been more tolerable in suburbs Sugarland and many others. That being said, my experience wasn't that good. Now, in comparison to Denver, man, we feel at home. You see interracial couples left and right; People don't look like they look in Houston. I can tell you that majority of the black men you see here are with white women. Hardly see black women with white men; but heard it more prevalent in Colorado Springs. You will observe I didn't put cities in California, New york and Florida up there. Personally, I have observed that these places though they are very diverse; just like Houston, however, people can be very rude; respective of your race and give you that WTF look. I think we're getting somewhere. I certainly can't tell you that your experiences are invalid, but of the countless interracial couples I know here in Houston, I've heard NO complaints. So, from where I'm standing, it's your word versus theirs. Well, it's your experience versus the facts. For a city with large populations of numerous races, Houston is one of the more integrated major metros in the nation, both physically and socially. People can continue to argue that all they want. I'm not denying Houston is more integrated, but have you spent much time up here? I only ask because I constantly meet people from Houston who were shocked at how integrated and diverse it is here. Not because they think its moreso than Houston, but because they were expecting it to be completely white bread. I've lived in LA, Chicago, and DC and frankly, my area of Plano is the single most racially, religiously, and culturally harmonious place I've ever lived. I would argue that with anyone. Not according to this map; atleast, not in a way more noticeable than in Houston. The maps must be lying, though, right? I think we're getting somewhere. I certainly can't tell you that your experiences are invalid, but of the countless interracial couples I know here in Houston, I've heard NO complaints. So, from where I'm standing, it's your word versus theirs. I hate to go by the maps or statistics. I like to give my personal anecdotals. My experience is, the more whites you have in the area; I talking about educated whites, liberal whites not in the sense of politics... Lets put Houston in context... Whites are moving to suburbs Sugarland, The Woodlands, Missouri City, Katy, Kingwood; e. Since they are moving to these places to flee from the reasons aforementioned, by human instincts, they start to harbor stereotypes, which translate to intolerance and racism. A black or Hispanic person might face far more racism and intolerance moving into an all white neighborhood in Texas than Colorado because Housing segregation is the order in Texas; it was put in place for a reason; reasons already stated. All blacks I have come across tend to be nice, educated and tend to mind their business , by these standards; whites here don't feel threatened to flee. Will they flee if the same Houston scenario were to happen, definitely. Historically, they fled most of Aurora because it's mostly blacks and hispanics, and crime is high compare to other cities. It's dirty, gangs, crime, intolerance, very humid nature I guess.. You will find all these to be true when you move to any northern states. Sometimes I ask myself; how did I end up in Houston in the first place? I can only ask that now because I live in a far better place. I don't turn on local news channel in the morning and see homicide, theft, shootings every day... Turn on your local Houston news channel every morning and see for yourself. THIS IS NOT A HAPPY WAY TO LIVE LIFE; it diminishes your life expectancy. I'm pretty sure the above stated might shock some people; it will if you haven't traveled a whole lot. There is a huge cultural difference between Northern and Southern United States. I, for one, didn't notice it until I moved. There is virtually no difference in culture between Canada and Northern United States. Explains why there are lots of Canadians in Northern States than in Southern States; the reason isn't money or distance, solely has to do with the fact that they feel comfortable in Northern states, where, they know their ideologies are shared. If you know Canadians; they are extremely liberal I have no clue how they got so liberal but left their American neighbor behind very open to interracial dating and marriages perhaps the interracial heaven in North America. Immaculately clean , people are more educated, less paranoid about race they may internalize it; which is fine. That's what education does to you , you see white, black, Asian, mixed, Hispanics kids playing together, all races living in the same communities, and communities are not heavily gated like Houston, Dallas and others like they are scared of someone. One other important thing that separate Northern and southern states is RELIGION. Southerners are way too religious. Northern states and Canadians; aren't that too religious but tend to live like they know God and treat you nicely; which is the philosophy I embrace. There is a reason why T. D Jakes, Joel Osteen do a better in the Southern states than in the Northern states. People on this part of the country think differently. I apologize for going tangential from the interracial topic. Just needed to expatiate further on segregation, integration and experience living in northern states and Canada. As intriguing as your theories are, they have little basis in truth. The days of white flight are over, and gentrification has begun. Whites aren't fleeing to the suburbs anymore. They're moving back into the city. Almost the entire western half of inner loop Houston is predominantly white. Much of your post seems to hint at self-hate, but that's a topic for another time. And like I said, your isolated experiences aren't the gospel truth. It's your word against the word of interracial couples who are perfectly happy here, so I'd advise anyone to take your post with a grain of salt. I'm not denying Houston is more integrated, but have you spent much time up here? I only ask because I constantly meet people from Houston who were shocked at how integrated and diverse it is here. Not because they think its moreso than Houston, but because they were expecting it to be completely white bread. I've lived in LA, Chicago, and DC and frankly, my area of Plano is the single most racially, religiously, and culturally harmonious place I've ever lived. I would argue that with anyone. Well to be fair, this diversity thing is new to DFW. Houston has has an international population for 40 years, while DFW really only started getting diverse about 15-18 years ago. People still carry those old stereotypes. Plano is diverse and probably the most diverse area of Dfw along with Irving , but to say it is anything like Southwest Houston is just false. Plano is just Sugar Land. Who really cares about interacial couples these days. I think all big cities in the U. S would be accepting of this.... Anybody who has the audacity to verbally express disdane to an interacial couple is clearly the disturbed one in the situation... As intriguing as your theories are, they have little basis in truth. The days of white flight are over, and gentrification has begun. Whites aren't fleeing to the suburbs anymore. They're moving back into the city. Almost the entire western half of inner loop Houston is predominantly white. They all want to be in the inner loop. The suburbs are mainly relovilles with lots of transplants that aren't familiar with the city, but even out in those areas I'm sure interracial couples are fairly common. Yes interracial in Houston you will have issues because it is too conservative. He feels comfortable in those areas because it is more liberal even though there is less diversity people just do not care. In Houston people care period ive experienced it MANY times. Just like Austin is easier to find girls interested in interracial dating but its 90% white but Austin is more liberal no one cares. But dude your fighting an endless battle just move and you will see the difference. One of us will get all the attention and the other one is ignored. We have experienced it enough consistantly we don't want to settle down in Houston? You're going to get that anywhere. If you were a realist you would have expected it. If you're going to make a decision on where to live based off of that and opinions from people on an internet site then you have your own issues.


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The next night, we had another terrific resistance wandering around New Bern and going on a ghost tour half the town is haunted, apparently. Almost the entire western half of inner loop Houston is predominantly white. Perhaps it would have been more tolerable in suburbs Sugarland and many others. Well to be fair, this idea thing is new to DFW. Yes you get to see people of different nationalities around, however, when it comes to residence, it is the most segregated city I have lived in. One other important thing that separate Northern and southern states is RELIGION. You can ring InterracialPeopleMeet for free and immediately start searching through millions of singles based on your particular interests.